Have you ever thought this thought to yourself. Have you ever spoke these words to a friend. ( If I were in charge; I would….)
I know for myself, I have!
I mean being honest I want to be right, I want to make a difference, my way.
However the truth of the matter is, I don’t have the authority to do either.
I think quite often we settle in to our quiet little progressive churches and then start labelling who we can fix, and who we wont bother to fix. I mean after all they take too much of our energy,  it is so much easier to just make them feel bad enough about themselves, that they may just go away!
Never thought of myself  as a hypocrite, however if I am quoting God and say love your neighbour as thyself, and then decide which one I am going to love; well then that’s what I am.
I love the vision that some pastor’s have, they do love God’s people, not just some of them, but they have a heart for all of them.
The biggest problem the pastor faces, is the me  in all of us.The me that the congregation keeps inside. We allow our natural man to take control and start deciding who gets to be part of our kingdom and who does not.
I think for me , I am going to spend this next year and do exactly what our Pastor has instructed, and that is have an Encounter!
So I will put out a challenge for all this year. Make this the year you experience God to the fullest, and Love Your Neighbour, not just the ones that are easy to love.

I think we better make some changes before it gets too hot for us to handle.

When a new person comes into your church, don’t decide for them that they can’t, wear those clothes, they can’t talk that way, they can’t live like that.
Lets put God back in charge; after all, he has a lot of experience being God!
I am making a change, will you?

3 Men-in-a garage

Posted: March 30, 2012 in Uncategorized

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The next book is still well under construction however some of you may also be aware of the new radio program I am involved with, and what we are doing. If you are not , I have been given the green light to put up one of the programs , here without the music intros and endings. This program will be aired on streaming radio as well as eleven regular FM Christian stations. Hope you enjoy the program.

The program which we named; 3 Men in A Garage, is a program where we get together and discuss real issues about real people and bring men’s issues to the work bench.

We can be heard streaming through links provided at thechristianlink.ca or one of Eleven FM stations.
Catch us on Inspire Radio 105.9 FM London


Getting it Right

 

 

It was early Friday morning, and the temperature was evident from the puffs of steam that appeared above Bobby’s nose as he exhaled. It was too cold to get out of bed. He just knew when his feet hit the cold linoleum it would be a shock to his system. That silly floor, with its ugly grey background and huge maroon leaf design, was not his favourite at the best of times. It reminded him of a funeral parlour. And the cold didn’t make it any better.

The big, old house Bobby’s mom rented, though at the city’s centre, used to sit on acres of farmland. There was even a barn in the backyard. The owners used it for storage and kept it locked up tight. There were three apartments in the house: the one on the second floor at the back, the other at the front where they lived now, and the one downstairs – where they’d lived when his father still lived with them.

It was the week before Christmas, but it didn’t matter. Things weren’t the same. His mom and dad had separated. Though he had moments of hope that things would change for the better, they never did. He overheard them talking about divorce, but he really didn’t understand what they were saying. He did understand, however, that it was going to be strange and scary celebrating Christmas without having his family together.

Bobby scurried over to the small closet. It was piled high with clothes, toys, games, and many other things stuffed inside to make his room look tidy. He knew his slippers were in there somewhere. Once he’d retrieved them, he headed into the living room. It wasn’t much warmer than his bedroom. The television was tuned to a show he never understood. It didn’t matter much anyway. The homemade tinfoil and coat hanger antenna didn’t do a good job. The picture was fuzzy.

His mom came into the room. She was ready to head out to her part-time job. She wanted to make sure he got washed up and ate his cornflakes. Bobby enjoyed fooling his mom. He would run water into the tub and splash it around a little. He would wet his hair and brush his teeth, then pull the plug. He’d tell his mom he’d had a bath. She would kiss him goodbye and remind him not to be late for school.

Bobby knew it would be a hard week at school, not because of the work, but because of the stories the other kids would share. They would talk about trips to their relatives and the visitors they’d have. They would also chatter on about the gifts their dads were buying for them. They’d talk about Santa and all the gifts he’d leave. All those things were true for Bobby in the past, but not this year.

He got dressed for school as quickly as he could. His clothes were always clean, and he liked to smell each item. They were “Downy fresh, like springtime in a bottle.” He loved that smell. When Bobby went to turn off the squawk box, as his dad called the television, he noticed the decoration that his mom had placed on top of it.

It was an old, wooden structure with a moss covered roof. In it were a man, a woman, and a baby as well as a donkey, a camel, and a couple of sheep. There were also three men dressed like ancient kings. There were two other men as well. Were they the wise guys Dad had told him about? How could they be that wise when they wanted to stay at an inn that was already full? The structure smelled like dust, but it must have been important to Mom. Why else would she have put it on top of his sacred squawk box?

Bobby headed off to join his friends. Hopefully, they could slide on the ice at the back of the school or, if the monitor was in a good mood, build a snowman.

The bell rang, and the students filed into the school. When they were settled, the teacher reminded them they were going to have a special assembly at 9:20, a celebration of Christmas. It wasn’t exactly on the top of Bobby’s to do list, a bunch of kids singing songs and some stupid play about Santa Claus. He wasn’t in the mood. He didn’t even know if Santa would show up at his house now that his dad didn’t live there.

Soon they were headed for the auditorium. He just knew as everyone took their places on the floor that the other students were looking forward to sugar cookies, candies, toys, and a visit from Santa. The lights went out, and the giggling started. But everything became quiet when a spotlight shone on a single child on stage.

The child raised his head and began to speak. “An angel appeared to Joseph, son of David, and told him to be not afraid. You, Joseph, will take Mary home as your wife, and she will give birth to a son. You will name him Jesus.”

The curtains opened, and there was a life-sized scene Bobby recognized. It was as if the scene on top of his television had come to life. He listened to how the baby was born and how the three wise men brought him gifts. He heard how even the animals became quiet and reverent, knowing the child was important. As the production continued, a warm feeling washed over Bobby – like he’d just eaten the best Christmas pudding ever. He sensed there was something different, something special about this day they called Christmas.

When the school day was over, Bobby hurried home. He unlocked the front door and ran to the living room. He saw the scene on top of the television in a whole new way. It looked like a new beginning. First, you lost everything, then you moved somewhere you didn’t want to be, but then you celebrated a new birth. The baby Jesus brought peace to the earth though he seemed like the poorest child on the planet.

Bobby smiled. It didn’t matter how much you had or how much you would lose – or even how much your friends had. Being someone special and getting the gift of love was the greatest give you could receive. He was going to make sure his mom knew he still wanted Santa to stop at their house, but he was thankful they had a place to stay and weren’t living in the stable behind an inn that had no room for them. Maybe he better get to know Jesus better. If he was a king even though he was born in a barn, surely Bobby could be something important one day too.

Hope is as great a need at this time of year as anything else. Give the gift of hope this year by telling someone he or she is loved.

I still can’t stand grey linoleum flooring though.

Merry Christmas!

A Spray Sno Christmas!

Posted: December 4, 2011 in My Blog, New Blog

SNO-TIME

 

I remember the year my dad decided he was going to go all out on indoor decorations. I don’t think we ever had outdoor lights at our house, but I do remember clear as a bell all the mini lights we would put in the windows. After painstakingly checking each tangled string for which light was burned out so the string would work, he would string them with the help of thumbtacks. I learned some fancy new words during this procedure.

This particular year, my father had come home a little late from work, as usual, and this time he was in a strange but happy mood. He was carrying a bag under his arm, which he said was a special bag of Christmas decorating tricks. I couldn’t see through the bag, but there were at least two rolls of something sticking out from the bag. Was dad going to tell me that he just discovered wrapping paper?

I would have to wait until the next day to find out. Dad headed right to his bedroom to hide the bag out of my sight. That was one room I didn’t go in uninvited, unless I wanted to feel a good smack on the posterior end.

I pondered what could possibly be in that bag. Could it be a poster of Santa? Maybe it was a wall mural of a nativity scene. Perhaps the hardware store where he worked had a new product? Something magical! Something only a child could dream up. I could hardly wait.

It would be straight to sleep after the dishes were done. Apparently Dad had eaten at the St. Clair, and so we could now do the dishes, even though it was almost my bedtime. He was quite late arriving home that night. It wasn’t until years later I discovered this place that he so frequently dined on a Saturday night was the St. Clair Hotel. They must have made really good food.

Off to my room I went with my mind racing about everything Christmas. As I lay there in my bed, I thought about all the great things Santa would bring me in a couple of weeks. A race car set. Maybe some new Hot Wheels cars. Maybe that new toy, the SSP racer. I might even get that walkie talkie set I had always wanted. It wasn’t long before I drifted off.

Morning arrived and I was up early in anticipation of what the day had to bring. Mom was drinking coffee and had my breakfast ready for me, Puffed Wheat cereal and Vim powdered skim milk.

I would sit there and stare at the big Santa poster rooftop scene we always put up the first day of December. I got lost in that poster more often than I can remember. It was big: six by three feet. It was printed on corrugated cardboard.  On it, Santa and his reindeer were flying through the night sky over the snow covered rooftops. It only had five colours in it: blue, white, red, yellow, and brown, but it made a huge impression.  I would always imagine which house was mine. This poster and the special Christmas countdown calendar were the only two decorations Mom and I put up until Dad was ready to decorate later in the month.

After I was done eating, Dad woke up, shaved,  and washed up. He would drink his instant Chase and Sanborn coffee and eat his toast as I dusted the living room and helped Mom clean the windows so we could decorate them. Dad made his way into the bedroom after he was finished his breakfast, and emerged with the magical bag of decorations. He took a spot on the couch and set the bag on the floor beside him and motioned for me to sit on the on the other side of the coffee table as Mom sat beside him on the couch.
The first things that emerged from the bag were the two cardboard rolls. It was a new product, a new decorating fad: coloured foil wrap. One roll was blue, the other green. He said we were going to wrap the front door in blue foil. The green foil he ended up using as a liner in the wall alcoves that he decorated with mailbox and snowmen candles. There were two of these alcoves. They kind of reminded me of the laundry chute we once had; only they were open and were like a built-in shelf.

Then Dad pulled out a small flat package and laid it on the table. What was it? There were pictures of snowflakes, snowmen and bells on the cover. He opened one of the packages to reveal a stack of punch out stencils. The first stencil I saw was of a wreath. Then there were reindeer, snowmen, candles, holly leaves, and a huge assortment of other interesting Christmas things.

Then he pulled out the most amazing thing I had ever seen. It was revolutionary for sure. I was certain it would change the world. There it was, a blue can with red accents and white lettering. It read, Sno-Time. It was some sort of spray snow. Dad took a piece of cardboard and sprayed some on it. I will never forget the smell that penetrated my nostrils. It was sort of like paint, but not really. The smell was unforgettable. To this day, whenever I smell something similar, it takes me back to that magical moment. Amazing! It looked like real snow, and we would have lots of it. Dad always got a special price at the hardware store. He then explained that we were going to spray the windows with snow scenes, using the cardboard stencils, before we put the mini lights in the windows. Oh, this sounded like fun, something really different!

Dad began by wrapping the front door and taping ribbon to it like it was a big package. Thinking back, Dad was pretty artistic. As he wrapped the door and lined the alcoves, Mom and I punched out the stencils. I remember that being a hard tedious task. It seemed like it took forever.

Then Dad started with the stencils. First, he sprayed the outside of the now blue foil wrapped front door, with snowbells and holly. He then did the alcoves, spraying stars of different sizes on the green foil. Then we tried to tape stencils on the windows. The tape would not stick, so Dad held them in place and sprayed them. I got to hold one as he sprayed, and some snow got on my hand. Oh, it was cold—just like real snow, I thought. Dad sprayed big scenes: a nativity scene on one window, a Santa scene on another. He also sprayed the corners of the windows to make them look frosted. He did something on every window, and then we hung the mini lights. It was the most beautiful house in the city, I was sure. I don’t think Mom was convinced. I do remember her saying more than once, “Harry, don’t you think that’s enough?” I guess it wasn’t because every time she asked, he found something else to spray.

He made sure he saved some so he could spray the tree when we got it in a couple of weeks. We always got our tree just before Christmas. Dad always waited for the man at the tree lot to mark his prices down. That is a story in its self that I’ll save for another time.

The house was complete and Christmas would soon come. We had our place looking great. I will always remember that Christmas. I had more fun helping with new decorations than I can ever remember. Magic existed that Christmas, magic I’ll never forget. Something that special ingrains itself in you.

The other thing I remember about that year was the week after Christmas and my mom working at trying to get the spray snow off the windows, tackling it with a razor blade and Windex and then vinegar.

My wife and I tried that stuff years later, but after she cleaned it a couple of times, Well, that tradition ended.

To all the parents with small children: Do something special this year and make a magical moment that will stay with them forever. Kids remember the most unusual things.

Merry Christmas

Ghosts of Christmas Past!

Posted: November 28, 2011 in My Blog

Now Dash Away, Dash Away All!

 

I remember one Christmas many years ago, when I was three or four. I can’t imagine a child being any happier.

I was  lying in a bed at my aunt’s home in Stratford, Ontario on Christmas Eve, convinced there was something special about to happen. It is such a vivid memory, and yet it was so long ago.

The darkness in the room was invaded by the moonlight that cascaded in through the third floor sunroom. It was a cold, crisp, snowy Christmas Eve. As I lay in a bed that was placed under the longest wall of windows, I could see the full moon and stars. The upper room was all windows from one end to the other. Three walls were actually all six-pane, sash windows, like the ones you see in the old Victorian style homes. There were no curtains on any of the windows, and they each had frost in the corners. It was so cold outside that the dark sky was crystal clear. There were wisps of smoke coming out of the chimneys of the adjacent rooftops, which seemed to reach into the sky asking the stars to come closer. There was a very large, old maple tree that reached all the way up and over the house. Its limbs were covered in a fresh layer of snow.

I could hear sounds of laughter and Christmas carols off in the distance. They were penetrating the floors of the old house as the adults celebrated in the first floor living room. I snuck out of bed and walked to the centre of the room where there was a faint light shining up through the floor register. The old register was really nothing more than a hole in the floor with a cast iron grate on top of it. The sounds seemed a little bit louder as I knelt to get my ear closer to the opening. I couldn’t make out what they were saying, but the laughter made me feel good.

I scampered back to my bed and dove into the large pile of blankets that awaited me. The room was cold, and dressed only in my pajamas I couldn’t stay up for long. I shivered and ducked my head under the covers, trying to shake off the cold from head to foot. As my body started to regain some warmth, I peeked out into the room once again. The moon had moved a little more and was really visible from my vantage point. The craters on the surface were so intense I could almost see the rocks. I thought they had a lot of lights on the moon because it sure was bright. I thought if I could go there at night I would be able to play outside. The snow that lay on the rooftops and trees had a blue hue that matched the colour of the moon.

I listened intently, trying to strain out the sounds of laughter and music, trying to hear past all the festivities. I wanted to hear something I’d never heard before but spent the whole summer dreaming of. I was convinced tonight would be the night. I just knew I’d hear sleigh bells. It was a perfect Christmas Eve for the jolly elf to show himself to me.

Soon I heard footsteps coming up the stairs. Should I hide under the covers? I pulled them up slightly still able to watch the room, only to see my older cousin come through the doorway. He must have been able to see me, as he knew I was still awake.

“You’re supposed to be sleeping. Now go to sleep or Santa won’t stop here,” he said sternly.

I replied with a quiet “okay.” I wondered how was anyone was supposed to sleep filled with that much anticipation. I was really looking forward to seeing what Santa would bring me, but I was even more intent on hearing his sleigh land on the roof.

I returned to looking outside and watching the smoke that had swirled up so high it seemed to be acting as a backdrop to the tree limb I was focused on earlier. The moon had moved still farther. I had butterflies in my stomach. Was Santa somewhere in my hometown of Sarnia right then? How long would it take him to finish up there and get to Stratford? My eyes were starting to get heavy. I was finally falling asleep. I could feel myself drifting off and yet fighting it. I so wanted to hear Santa!

Then the most magical thing I could possibly think of happened: sleigh bells, I could hear sleigh bells. They seemed to be off in the distance and getting closer. Oh, how I wanted to jump out of bed and look out the windows to see if I could get a glimpse of him. I just knew if I did, my cousin would be really mad, and I didn’t want to be the one he blamed for Santa not stopping at the house.

I rolled over towards the window and could still see out if I just moved my eyes up a bit. I lay there and tried closing my eyes. It didn’t work. I was still awake. The sleigh bells seemed closer. Santa would arrive very soon. If I could just hear him land, I won’t go look. I promise. I just lay there listening to the bells. My eyes were getting really heavy. I curled my legs up towards my chest and relaxed. I was drifting off, and then it happened: I heard really loud sleigh bells, and then a noise that seemed to come from the roof. It was Santa!

The next noise I heard was my cousin yelling, “Robert, wake up! Santa came. It’s Christmas morning.”

We scampered down the stairs. My aunt was already up. We ran past her as we headed for the front room. I remember her yelling, “Whoa, you two. We will not touch the gifts until everyone is up.”

My cousin and I sat there on the couch, waiting and staring at the beauty that lay before us, a mountain of freshly delivered gifts just waiting to be ripped into.

I don’t remember what I got that year. I don’t even remember what we ate or when we left or what else we did, but the night I heard Santa will never leave my memories. I don’t know if it was my dad and uncle up to something or if it was really Santa Claus that night. In any case, I heard him.

Thank God for imagination. 

More or Less ?

Posted: November 22, 2011 in My Blog, This weeks blog
I recently woke up, looked around me, and thought, “What a great day to be alive!” I get that even when it’s a bad day. Let’s face it: A bad day to live must be better than a good day to die.

At least that was my flesh’s reaction. I looked out the window and saw that there, in the backyard, where only a few leaves had been the day before were more leaves. I looked in the front yard, and there, where the leaves had been, were far fewer leaves. They, of course, where blowing around uncontrollably and going whichever way the wind blew.

That reminded me of a thought I’d had a few days earlier. There is less of more and more of less. There are less people getting involved at the local church, and yet there are more needs than ever. There are more jobs being lost each day, and fewer being created. There are more people in the world getting sick and fewer doctors. There are fewer people willing to come forward when a crime is committed, and yet there are more crimes than ever.

I think, like the leaves I watched blowing around in my yard, I really don’t go anywhere in particular. I seem to just go about doing more of less myself. I think I need a supervisor to keep me going where there is less, so that place can have more.

What about you? Ask yourself, “Am I more or less? Can I complain less and encourage more? Can I spend less and give more? Can I be more positive and less negative? Can I be more compassionate and less judgmental?”
You can fill in the more and less categories yourself.

As for me, I think I will have more prayer time and less television time. I will ask the executive supervisor (God) where he could use me more.

Bless you more!

Prune it first. Then Cut it Down!

Posted: November 14, 2011 in My Blog

Prune It First!

Recently, we had three trees removed from our yard. We absolutely loved the trees, but there was just no sunlight getting through. Though the shade is welcomed on a hot day, during the fall, when the acorns fall and the leaves come down and large branches fall off and nearly clobber your dog, you realize there is good and bad in even lovely creations. The part that really bothered me was, of course, the trees that are the nicest are the ones that are encroaching on the foundation and the septic tank. So, on with the task of having them removed.

I watched as the skilled arborist looked at each tree from every angle before making his ascent. He then methodically made his way up the tree, stopping just long enough to lop off a small branch or two along the way. Eventually, I noticed he was not just cutting whatever branches got in his way, but the ones that would hinder the larger limbs he would eventually cut off.

Once he’d made his way to a certain point in the tree, he started to cut the larger limbs. I was amazed at how he looked at each branch before cutting it to make sure it wouldn’t interfere with another. He would make his calculations and decide which one would come down next and the one after that, etc.

The climber kept a close watch on everything around him as he continued to the top of the tree. Once he was satisfied with all of his cuts, he came down and prepared the site in order to drop the tree on its side. As he cut his angle on the large stump, I could see the tree start to lean. It went quickly, landing exactly where he said it would.

I now look at my life and think the big issues in my life, like the tree, need to be pruned before I can get rid of them.

God accepts you just the way you are and slowly and methodically prunes the things from your life in a perfect and skilled fashion. You don’t realize it at the time, but God does have a plan for your life. Don’t be so quick to think you’ve failed when circumstances seem too difficult for you. In everything, God is slowly pruning away that which needs to go.

You slip and have a relapse on these big issues in your life, things you thought you’d dealt with. Realize God has a specific pruning process to completely get rid of the issues. He works at cutting off the smaller branches first. He looks at your life much differently than you do. After all, he is the master, the expert, the creator of your life. He knows what’s best and will trim the big issues slowly and permanently.

Don’t be in a hurry to change because someone else has said to get rid of something in your life. Change because you want to please God, and he will make it simple, perfect, and permanent.

Have a Great Day!

Don’t Shoot

Posted: November 8, 2011 in My Blog
DON'T SHOOT!

DON'T SHOOT!

This morning I awoke thinking about passionate people and the words we use. I’m speaking to myself, but if I’m doing and learning these things, I’m sure others are too.

Passion is a gift. I often find I’ve been given the ability to understand something quicker than some of the people around me. I, somehow, seem to know what needs to be done and can’t wait to delve right in. Most of the time, I can hardly wait to tell others what they need to do. I often do this without thinking.

I‘ve loaded the words and fired them without waiting for the right time. How many times have I wanted to hold the words back but forgot to set the safety on my mortar mouth? The next thing they hear is a warning: Incoming!

This makes me consider what would happen if a soldier or police officer were to fire off a round before understanding the whole situation. What would the repercussions of that shot be? Even friendly fire can kill. Good soldiers and competent police officers realize just because they carry guns doesn’t mean they need to shoot.

Just because God has given me the insight into a situation doesn’t mean I need to tell anyone–or at least not without waiting for the time to be right. I seem to have been given a weapon’s check today: Look at the weapon’s function and be sure it’s ready to fire when needed. I must decide if the ammo is the right calibre for the job. (I don’t need a cannon to kill a mosquito.) I must see that there’s no one else in the line of fire. Firing the weapon should always be the last resort.

I have the words, or ammo, but that doesn’t mean I have to load my weapon. I must learn to check the area for unknown obstacles and persons. I must also listen to the Great Commander before I fire the first shot. Yes, I really am trying to curb my words and keep my passion for making things right in check. The timing has to be optimal. I want to help, not hinder, and therefore, there is only one right time.

Just because I carry the gun doesn’t mean I need to use it.

“God mould me and change me. Make me the man you have called me to be.”

Blessings!

Don’t touch that!

Posted: November 6, 2011 in My Blog

Ever been working on your computer and realized you really need it to say; “don’t touch that”!

Fall Back Cleaning

Posted: November 6, 2011 in My Blog

I decided that while we are all raking leaves and getting out our Christmas decorations here in the north, it would be a good time to clean up my blog site.

It would seem that I had a lot more to do than I had first thought; however with a bit of persistence and mouse slamming, I am finished for now.